How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 00:40
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
That's it for today.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Who has experienced what they called a happy accident (bestiality)?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Can you share 100 facts about yourself?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Making more friends is a goal.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
What is the difference between heaven and heavens?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Does not procrastinate.
Is it just me, or do we all hate Sasuke from Naruto?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
What baseball stories from the early days of the sport seem too bizarre to be true?
What I need from you?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Is the Shia claim true that Imam Ali was born inside the Kaaba?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
What was your most memorable combat mission during the Vietnam War?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
What is the sum of X+XX+XXX+XXXX?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Ask yourself:
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Why does Filipino culture dictate that parents should be treated as gods?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Procrastinates a lot.